A new baby. Your older child still needs you.

Tuck In Books | Free parent notes

Choose one familiar routine to protect, a small time together and honest words about the change. Your child can have more than one feeling about a new sibling.

Start here

- Explain that a baby needs lots of care and cannot play like an older child yet.

- Protect a familiar moment with your older child when you can.

- Invite small ways to join in, without requiring a helper role.

Words to adapt

Our example: “You wanted me to sit with you, and I am feeding the baby. That is disappointing. When I finish, I can sit beside you for our book.”

Your notes

A familiar routine we can protect: __________________

A small moment together: __________________

A trusted adult who can help: __________________

What will happen when I am away: __________________

When to ask for more support

If you are worried about your child’s adjustment, persistent distress or safety around the baby, speak with your pediatrician. Ask for practical help from trusted adults when caring for both children feels overwhelming.

These are general editorial ideas and original examples, not an individual assessment.

Read the full guide: https://www.tuckinbooks.com/help/new-sibling/

Parenting resources

American Academy of Pediatrics: helping siblings adjust to a new baby
https://www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/prenatal/Pages/Preparing-Your-Family-for-a-New-Baby.aspx